(05-22-2014, 09:03 AM)RachelB Wrote: [ -> ]Quote:Why the heck haven't I got laid yet? All the chicks seem to gravitate towards the douches, pricks, assholes and bad boys.
Because you're an idiot.
What lol? Maybe not all woman but the majority of American woman are like that. I can't even score a date after twenty years no matter what approach I take and what I change. Even woman that I should have absolutely no problem getting a date with doesn't seem attracted to me in that way other than a good friend at best. Claiming I'm an idiot seems kind of harsh but then again most of these guys that get dates without any problems aren't really bright by any means. Even with keeping my anxiety under control, speaking more confidently and fluently I haven't gotten much further than where I started out. Is there another definition of idiot I'm not aware of because in the term "idiot" obviously isn't synonymous with my intelligence because I'm quite bright and knowledgeable compared to some folks whom have no such issues.
Okay so I mentioned about getting laid which might have prompted that type of response. Tbh I just want a solid relationship for the company, being able to share things with a special someone, caring after someone and possibly forming a family, have fun and cuddling. But healthy sex is good too and you can't imagine the tension and anxieties I have to deal with due to lack of romance and a sex life while watching everything pass me by.
Man what the heck did I just walk into?....
So people, I finally got my 3D printer (Printrbot Simple 2014) and assembled it, so far its running really well. Anyone else here have a 3D printer? These things are absolutely amazing! Can't wait to do some lost PLA casting with some designs also.
@Xtreme2damax - Have you ever just tried and asked if you could get laid? I mean, women (and men) can't expect to know what's on your mind (unless your, er, pants show the proper signals). Maybe you need to switch teams.
Well forget it, I should've never included that part in my post.. But that's not what I was getting at and was more or less joking. Since all I hear is chicks like douches/assholes, bad boys etc.. those who aren't bright but can get dates with attractive woman because they are confident enough and that's why I'm always being friendzoned. So I am trying to change, become more outspoken and confident to become more attractive and while it's helped to an extent I'm still not much further than were I started out at. :/
But with the above responses that's why I didn't want to go into much details. No one here is going to really understand or relate to what I'm going through, tend to be judgemental and cruel. I guess I'm just different where I tend to treat those I meet online and interact with regularly with the same respect and consideration as if I was talking to their face.
Honestly didn't know posting that last bit would have garnered such responses here and should have left it out. I wanted to rant a bit because it's not like my technologically illiterate family and friends will understand this online business with forums.
(05-22-2014, 12:08 PM)Xtreme2damax Wrote: [ -> ]Well forget it, I should've never included that part in my post.. But that's not what I was getting at and was more or less joking. Since all I hear is chicks like douches/assholes, bad boys etc.. those who aren't bright but can get dates with attractive woman because they are confident enough and that's why I'm always being friendzoned. So I am trying to change, become more outspoken and confident to become more attractive and while it's helped to an extent I'm still not much further than were I started out at. :/
But with the above responses that's why I didn't want to go into much details. No one here is going to really understand or relate to what I'm going through, tend to be judgemental and cruel. I guess I'm just different where I tend to treat those I meet online and interact with regularly with the same respect and consideration as if I was talking to their face.
Honestly didn't know posting that last bit would have garnered such responses here and should have left it out. I wanted to rant a bit because it's not like my technologically illiterate family and friends will understand this online business with forums.
It's not much about the problem itself but the approach that you have ( or seem to have ) with it. The ultimate objective in my opinion shouldn't be about getting laid but about the relationship itself ( and if that's what you were trying to say, then I suggest rephrasing that better).
Guys I was just kidding about the getting laid part. I honestly don't care about that but if a relationship leads there well alright I'll finally be a man.. I was just stating what everyone has been telling me when I seek advice on this stuff and was joking about it. I only care about being close to someone, sharing laughs and time with them, a bit of cuddling and maybe a family of my own someday. Nothing too much as I tend to be allergic to close contact. If a woman wanted me to do the dance with her and stripped off her clothes I'd be lost, I'd clam up and become non-responsive and maybe pass out because it would be such a shock to me.
So funny how fake and set up that was lol. Punches hand through monitor and it barely moves an inch plus he'd probably injure his hand quite a bit. Still kind of funny though but could've been more believable.
I think that the fakeness adds a little to it though, every time I see the small clouds of smoke coming out of the monitor I laugh.
Oh, and hello :>
(05-22-2014, 10:10 AM)Xtreme2damax Wrote: [ -> ] (05-22-2014, 09:03 AM)RachelB Wrote: [ -> ]Quote:Why the heck haven't I got laid yet? All the chicks seem to gravitate towards the douches, pricks, assholes and bad boys.
Because you're an idiot.
What lol? Maybe not all woman but the majority of American woman are like that. I can't even score a date after twenty years no matter what approach I take and what I change. Even woman that I should have absolutely no problem getting a date with doesn't seem attracted to me in that way other than a good friend at best. Claiming I'm an idiot seems kind of harsh but then again most of these guys that get dates without any problems aren't really bright by any means. Even with keeping my anxiety under control, speaking more confidently and fluently I haven't gotten much further than where I started out. Is there another definition of idiot I'm not aware of because in the term "idiot" obviously isn't synonymous with my intelligence because I'm quite bright and knowledgeable compared to some folks whom have no such issues.
Okay so I mentioned about getting laid which might have prompted that type of response. Tbh I just want a solid relationship for the company, being able to share things with a special someone, caring after someone and possibly forming a family, have fun and cuddling. But healthy sex is good too and you can't imagine the tension and anxieties I have to deal with due to lack of romance and a sex life while watching everything pass me by.
You're right, it has nothing to do with your intelligence. If you actually think that's true, then that is exactly your problem. Women don't like jerks, and it's insulting that you think that. Your rant about how you're an asshole and therefore are somehow entitled to sex or something is honestly disgusting.