Have a spare large HDD? Is the abuse physical or verbal? Couldn't you get a restraining order then go in and copy your library and work?
I wish I could offer you advice on the matter but never had to deal with such things or know anyone that has. Sorry to hear that, it sucks and hope you can find a way to work it out in your favor.
I wish I could offer you advice on the matter but never had to deal with such things or know anyone that has. Sorry to hear that, it sucks and hope you can find a way to work it out in your favor.