Wii remote will not pair

[Whacka]

Despite watching videos and reading articles, I cannot get my Wii Remote to pair with dolphin. Windows sees it and i can pair and connect with the wii remote. It sits there connected for only about 10 seconds before disappearing again. (has done this with all controllers I have tried, and yes the bluetooth adapter works) Pressing the Refresh button in the emulator results in the wii remote appearing again in the bluetooth list but it disappears again after the wii remote does not connect to anything. I've tried pressing 1 + 2 after and before pressing refresh, tried both old and new wii remotes, and tried the alternative driver where you can press the sync button in the controller settings. Nothings happens, please help I want to play wii bowling again =)