wii mote not connecting

[domjam]

Hi im having trouble with connecting my wii mote . i did not have this issue on my last computer build. but on my new rig im experincing problems and i dont no how to fix it..iv got my bluetooth dongal and i can add the device by adding bluetooth device and pressing the 1 and 2 buttons on the wiimote..windows picks it up and its listed in my device manager as Nintendo RV-CNT-01 so i no its connected but the icon is grayd out.and when i try to open up dolphin.normaly as soon as i go to the wiimote settings i would get the vibration and it would be connected..but its not doing that for some resson. i tryd pressing the pair up button.it becomes unresponsive for a few seconds then nothing happens.i cant get it to work at all..anyone no how i can fix this?