How to patch?

[lemontie13]

I realize this is a seriously nooby question and that there was a thread for this in the actual patch section, but how do you patch the dolphin emu for a specific game? in particular, i'm talking about Tales of Graces, patching 4716 build. hopefully someone can help make more sense of it than the other topic, i'm seriously illiterate when it comes to these things, so if you don't mind, make it as easy as possible. many thanks!