Thanks for the help and advice to all ya'll who commented. Got everything working now. I found the proper wad files i needed for both and then used [color=#2b4f7a]YAWMM_EN to install them and it worked perfect first time and both forwarders work flawlessly 
And as for the Native Controls thingey... i just set "Native Controls" to OFF in USB Loader GX and my wavebird works perfect from the controller port on my console and the exit button-combo now also works too (btw that was what i was referring to - unless i'm mistaken then if you run a game in Nintendont with Native Controls on it disables the exit button-combo, right?) Well now using USB Loader GX (as i said) i've found a way around it 
Cheers peeps and keep keeping the world safe from the forces of evil
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And as for the Native Controls thingey... i just set "Native Controls" to OFF in USB Loader GX and my wavebird works perfect from the controller port on my console and the exit button-combo now also works too (btw that was what i was referring to - unless i'm mistaken then if you run a game in Nintendont with Native Controls on it disables the exit button-combo, right?) Well now using USB Loader GX (as i said) i've found a way around it Cheers peeps and keep keeping the world safe from the forces of evil [/color]